A while ago I was browsing around and someone had mentioned a blog that sounded interesting, so I visited. It was ok for the first couple of posts, then I left. Recently, I hit upon another blog that gave me the same reaction. In both cases, the blogs were trying to be raise awareness. The first about racial stereotypes and the second about racial and gender biases.
I consider myself to be pretty open minded. I’ll listen to anything, but I tend to just collect the information to form a complete opinion. The more opinions you hear, the better able you are make your own. But some people have one opinion and spout it ad nauseam. And sometimes those people think they are being open-minded simply because their obsession is a minority position or some other radical thought. But they’re still closed-minded, or as I say, singularly open-minded.
So, thinking about this idea made me wonder how being open-minded related to being uncommitted. Can you be truly open-minded and still have an opinion or does having an opinion give you an artificial bias? And maybe it has to do with the level of acceptance of differing viewpoints. You can hold an opinion until the opposing arguments convince you otherwise.
And that’s one area I take issue with the blogs that I had read. I can only take so much “selling” at one time. I must have determined quickly that the remaining posts would be more of the same. The more I hear an argument, the less persuasive it becomes. Some of it is: You’re trying too hard. If your idea was so good, you shouldn’t need to go on and on about it. The other part is cynicism. If you don’t shut up for a minute and let me consider what you’ve said, I’m not going to believe any of it.
Now I’m getting all worked up. Thanks.